What It’s Really Like Working with Your Spouse … And 5 Tips to Make It Work
Working with your spouse isn’t always easy, but it can be incredibly rewarding.
Frank Gibbons, CEO of Karen Jones Consulting Inc. and husband of founder Karen Jones-Gibbons, reflects on the journey:
“It’s been over eight years since I made the leap from my full-time public sector role to join Karen Jones Consulting full-time. I had been involved part-time since the company began 15 years ago, but stepping in fully gave me a whole new perspective on what it really means to work side by side with your partner every day.”
If you’re thinking about starting a business with your spouse, or are already navigating the day-to-day realities of working together, here are five strategies that have helped Frank and Karen build a strong professional and personal partnership:
1. Check Your Ego at the Door
Respect each other’s roles and embrace a “give and take” approach. Compromise is key. It’s essential to consider both business and personal perspectives in decision-making and to treat each other as equals, even when roles or responsibilities differ.
2. Separate Personal from Professional
Don’t let personal disagreements spill into the workplace, especially when other team members are involved. Handle personal matters privately and maintain professionalism in front of your staff and clients.
3. Create Physical and Mental Space
Working in close quarters can be challenging. Whenever possible, create separate workspaces or offices to maintain a sense of autonomy. Time apart during the day can help preserve a healthy dynamic and prevent burnout.
4. Build on Trust
Trust is the cornerstone of any strong relationship, and in business, it’s non-negotiable. Trust your partner to manage their responsibilities and make decisions in the best interest of the company. It fosters a strong team culture and sets the tone for the rest of your staff.
5. Prioritize Your Relationship
It’s easy to let business consume your conversations and energy. While work talk will naturally creep into daily life, make a conscious effort to nurture your personal relationship. Spend time together outside of work, enjoy shared hobbies, and stay connected beyond the business.
Every couple’s working relationship is different, but these five tips can help guide you as you grow a business that supports your clients and empowers your team. If you’re considering taking the leap into business with your spouse, or already have, use these insights to help you find your rhythm.
